Na paixão sentimos e pensamos..más de um jeito DIFERENTE !:) na verdade não pensamos em muitos aspectos ao mesmo tempo, pensamos só no objeto DESEJADO. Somos “cegos” porque a luz do outro é muito forte, é um flash permanente, tudo é clarissímo, tão claro que não vemos nada. No obstante a gente não liga para esta falta de RAZAO momentânea porque é muito gostoso sentir, sentir ao máximo!
Na razão, sentimos e pensamos de um jeito mais abrangente: todos os elementos (ou vários) entram em jogo, é momento de estratégia! Todos têm seu valor, não só eu ou a pessoa que nos apaixona. Traçamos um plano, curtimos o projeto, seus momentos altos e baixos…é emocionante também. E, enxergamos as luzes, as sombras e meia-sombras…
O amor, AMAR alguém, tem a ver em juntar os 2 : Paixão com Razão…um estimulando, ofuscando as vezes, o outro direcionando, contemporizando. Uma bela mistura.
This video is great because it shows all the phases of passion: when we are IN-LOVE we experiment lots of different feelings. In the heat of Passion we think differently..yes we do think! but it is a focused, one sided thinking…we are one (we want to) with the object of our passion and it seems that nobody else exists.
Reason is another state which can be particularly intense and a source of pleasure too! when we can think, we can see all the orchestra, with its different musicians and instruments..we can organize and considering all the elements available , we can do a strategy, a project.
I believe that LOVE, or when we love we can join the sublime state of passion with the good sense of reason..we can let both of them act in ourself knowing that when we get blind by the beauty of Eros we will soon let Reason discuss with us to see more that the glowing light. Shadows and tones of grey are part of love.
My name is Frederica Dillen CASSIS, born of a Belgium mother and an Egyptian father, on the 3rd of January 1966 in Brussels, Belgium.
I am back with news! life continues with its adventures...
I´ve travelled a lot, lived in many countries. Brazil is my seventh country and i live in Sao Paulo for 32 years now. Graduated in Clinical Psychology in
1991, I specialized in Junguian Psychology and in Hemophilia since then.
LATEST PROJECTS:
1) Launching IN-HEMOACTION flash cards, 2026 updated version where I added new topics like Inhibitors and novel treatments, physiotherapy and a some playful activities like video games!
2) HERO (Hemophilia Experiences Results and Opportunities) sponsored by Novo Nordisk since 2009-2014 Done !exploring through qualitative and quantitative analysis the psychosocial issues involving People with hemophilia, their carers and the health professionals in the treatment process.
2) P-TET (Pediatric Thrombosis Educational Tool) , for kids on anti-coagulant treatment...inspired on IN-HEMOACTION flashcards success.
3) I am a co-author along with psychologist Irene Fuchs and Edward Kuebler of a booklet called "Communication, love and sexuality for people with hemophilia, carriers and family"
4) Done: systematic review for the Cochrane Collaboration :"psychological interventions for people with hemophilia and their families"
5) Actually I counsel people who wants to perform as competition level athlete and collaborate with them seeking wellness and goals
On a more personal level I have 3 three great not anymore children :) Danaê 35, Rubi 29 and Iggy 27 and i am since 2019 a pole sport athlete at a national and international level. I love it! also To walk and look for shells on a beach and discovering deserts...:)
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